Buenos Días

Something so common and used over time that it feels natural when first seeing someone.

We start out saying it because it’s the norm, because that’s what’s expected of us, but eventually we say it out of goodwill.

Something so simple it requires no effort, can be a source of power for another without intention.

We feel more comfortable in our skin when we say it with purpose, that it develops confidence with each distribution.

Some even feel disrespected if the saying isn’t said in the first encounter.

Some say it to ignore their sadness or frustration at the expense of wishing others good fortune, even if it’s for a short stint.

Some say it to make themselves feel better, to establish presence in the room they entered and express, “look at me,” and, “I’m important.”

Some say it because they have something to say.

Others because they have to say something.

An expression that is shared by cultures, and crosses languages, however seldom. It’s one of the first phrases we learn when wanting to be accepted by a new community.

It’s something to wish onto others, while secretly wishing for ourselves.

A simple and elusive offering.

So I wish you a good morning, because that’s all I can offer.


Here’s my inspiration for the day.