We naturally seek patterns.
So when a person answers his calling, the patterns become clearer, almost as if they were preordained.
We call this destiny.
Many notable figures fell in love with their destiny: it carried them throughout their rise, but they became so obsessed with it that it ultimately became their downfall as well.
You can learn from them.
Fall in love with your destiny.
But when it starts to do more harm than good, gracefully surrender it.